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    The Dash

    I attended my first funeral post-Covid (and my dad’s funeral) and I made it through! As I was sitting there listening to the eulogy, I began to think of the dash. You know the dash between the day you were born and the date you will pass away. What are you doing with your dash?  I know we don’t necessarily like to think of our death, but that day is inevitable. When the day comes, what will be said about you? Will people speak of your kind works? How you helped others? Will they say you were intentional about sharing the love of God? Better yet, what will God say,…

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    20/20 Vision in 2021

    Happy New Year! I hope your year has kept you well. It’s been a few weeks since I last posted, how was your Christmas? New Year? Did you make a vision board or naw? This blog post is the second part of my last blog post about moving forward with the 2020 vision. In that post, I shared the story of the man that was blind from birth and how Jesus healed him (if you missed that post, go back and check it out). As you continue reading the story you find that there were many that didn’t believe in his healing. The Pharisees questioned the blind man and his…

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    Moving Forward with 2020 Vision

    At the beginning of 2020, we heard all about clear vision in 2020. As the year progressed, many including myself were ready to throw the whole year away. And while I still agree 2020 has brought about many challenges, I believe this year was a year of gaining a clearer vision. In the midst of 2020, we learned the things that mattered most, we learned to prioritize. We valued our time with family and friends and found new ways to communicate with one another. We learned just how precious life was and that it was not guaranteed. The same people that started this year’s journey with us are not here…

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    Moving Forward!

    As I was thinking of what to write for this week, I went back to forgiveness. Sometimes or many times it’s not just about us forgiving other people, but forgiving ourselves. We often struggle with forgiving ourselves from past mistakes or allowing certain situations to occur. I have found myself focusing on past mistakes, wishing I could have done things differently. I often have a pep talk with myself, “Bridgette the milk is spilt, you can only clean it and keep it moving; no sense in crying over the spilt milk.” Are there some things you haven’t let go? The failed business, harsh words spoken, bad career moves, or the…