• Breaking Barriers

    Confidence Booster

    I recently had the pleasure to go see the movie, I Feel Pretty. Definitely a chick flick, but very good with a great message. There was one point in the movie, in which she questioned her abilities based on her looks, thinking people would question her because of how she looked. As a woman, I have struggled with insecurities and a lack of confidence. Growing up I was pretty confident in myself and my abilities, I would even say I would encourage others to think more of themselves. I was very open with speaking my mind and unbothered (most days) about how others thought of me, but as an adult…

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    Keep Going

    Have you ever just wanted to give up? I sure have! Perhaps it’s just me, but there are times when I just want to give up. So I have a confession, I’m not perfect. Whew, I’m so glad to get that off my chest. Some people try to portray as though they are perfect and do all things right, but I’m not going to stress myself out trying to do that; it’s not even possible. There are times when I make commitments to myself and don’t follow through with them. One example is my writing. I know this is super simple, but hear me out. For me writing is therapeutic,…

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    You Don’t Rule Me!

    Every now and then we need to be called out on our stuff (bull). This happened to me the other day when my mom called me out on something I had not followed through on. Side bar, if you don’t have people in your life that will call you out when you’re wrong, you don’t have the right people in your life. We all make mistakes, it’s important that the people that love you tell you about those mistakes, so that you don’t continue to make them, this includes parents, friends, cousins, aunts, uncles, etc. As shared in my last post, love rejoices in truth (1 Corinthians 13:6). Okay, so…

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    Love is

    This morning I had the opportunity to watch/listen to the sermon of the #royalwedding, and oh what a treat it was. The Most Rev. Michael Bruce Curry reminded us of the power of love! Scripture tells us, “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres (‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭13:4-7‬ ‭NIV‬‬).” If we all walked in love what would this world be…