• Breaking Barriers

    When We Pray

    There’s just so much going on in the world. Earlier this week, as I heard reports of the school shooting in Texas, I continued to ignore it. If I came across someone talking about it on my timeline, I’d scroll by quickly or if it came on tv, I would quickly change the station. It wasn’t that I was desensitized to it, but I was tired. And I’m sure many feel the same way. I did eventually listen to the full story and it made me sad (which was one reason why I ignored it initially). A few weeks ago I had a desire to write a blog on prayer,…

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    Single: It’s Ghetto here, but God

    In all of my blogging, I’ve never focused a blog on my singleness, but recently I felt the need to share some of my journey. I was talking with a friend the other day and I was like, I’ve been single for over 20 years. And now I’m telling you, I’m over it. Lol.  In my single season, I’ve had highs and lows. Recently I’ve felt like there were more lows, why, because like I said before I’m over it. Lol. Just as I’m sure many feel the need to give up from time to time, I’m no different, even in my single season. I’ve begun to question myself, am…

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    Gratitude

    Last week was an interesting week for me. There was one day in particular when everything went wrong it seemed. I had a conversation with a friend, who was having the same type of day. As she was about to complain about what was going wrong, she stopped and said, no, I will not focus on the negative, I will deal with what is happening, but also find the positive. I decided to take the same stance, and while everything didn’t get better, I recognized that I can’t control everything, but I can control how I deal with it. How do you deal with opposition? Do you focus on the…

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    Identity in Isolation

    When we strip away the accessories of this world, will we still carry ourselves the same? Maybe the weight of perception being taken off one’s shoulders will allow us to be pleasantly light in the present. Resting vulnerably and naked in his presence, seeking him & not the validation of things. Finally, slowing down long enough to realize the hamster wheel called best life we’ve been on…. Taking this time to rest from running. God longs to know you the same way he knew you before he formed you. He’s tired of hearing countless busy signals. So, he’s cut the signal in our service. Disrupting our routines, timelines, & schedules, hoping that…